Wednesday, April 5, 2023

Leadership-EGO Friend or Foe

                  

            I always stress that the job of being a Firefighter should be focused first on people. When we speak of people, we typically think of the public we serve, but as leaders we must never overlook the other people that deserve our attention, namely those whom we have the un-written contract with to serve. We must juggle managing and leading, finding a balance between the two competing disciplines. 

            For me the working definition of managing and leading starts with the end state in mind.  When a person manages, they are meeting the needs of stakeholders and the bottom line. This should not be confused with the act of leading. We employ people skills when we interact with our staff, and keeping the ego in check is one of the most important people skills.

         A leader, first must be a good follower, being humble enough to know that they are not always going to have the answer. Following requires that you accept your place in the system, being flexible and open minded. Many would-be leaders fail when it comes to following, believing that they have the only solution to the problem and no one else has ability to do a better job. They are the letting their Ego drive their actions. They are not necessarily flawed people. According to Freud the human physiological make up includes the Id, Ego and Super Ego. I am not by any means an expert on the human mind (and this is not the vehicle to explore the subject)  but it is not a bad thing for a leader to have an ego. 

        History’s leaders were men of strength; physical, mental, and emotional strength. The situations they faced required a person who had vision, charisma, and an ego to be successful.   Modern leaders followed this model, applying the influence of power, position, and ego to lead government, business, the military, and community and service organizations.  This did not always prove to be the formula for success. Many leaders, who just by their rank or position did not have the tools to lead and they failed the mission, because they could not keep the ego in its place.

        We think of the egomaniac, unwilling and unable to see the issue beyond their own lens, as the autocratic dictator, who will not listen to or seek the input of others. The ego driven person is often seen as self-important, unrealistic, and most defiantly not as servant leader. The issue again is balancing the impact of the ego, as is that there is a time and a place for the egocentric autocratic leadership style.  This style must only be used sparingly and not the constant driving force in the leaders actions.

        Ego often drives the actions of traditional "leaders". The success that they can create from the use of title and influence only work to benefit them, that is until the Ego is all that they are. In chapter eleven of It Worked for Me-In life and Leadership by Collen Powell discusses mutual respect. “Leaders have legal authority for followers. They can demand and expect obedience on the job and have the power to take action against followers who do not obey or meet expected standards of performance. "He then goes on to state.” Obedience alone may get the job done, but it probably doesn’t inspire commitment to the job.”(p.77). 

            To summarize Powell’s thoughts: To inspire pride in work or the product or a passion for excellence the follower must feel they are part of a well led team. This comes from when they respect their leaders and in turn, they believe they are respected by their leaders. This also requires mutual trust between leaders and those who are being lead. Real leadership requires a person to create a balance between the positive and negative aspects of their ego. It is up to the individual; will their ego beFriend or Foe.

 

 
        

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